I have shoped in Victoria's Secret with my mother in law before. I bought a cute cami that said "the night is young" and some short shorts. Is this totally classless? Also, sometimes my mother in law talks about making sex coupons for my father in law and I get a little embarrassed. But besides this we don't talk about sex. What do you think?
It certainly wouldn't bother me, particularly if we were close.
It depends on how close to your m-i-l you are. If you have a really great relationship, first of all congratulations, and second of all go for it. If you don't have a completely best friend type relationship, though, I wouldn't recommend it.
It would be a hoot to shop at Victoria's Secret with my MIL. She's hilarious when it comes to sex (she's also 77 years old!) and makes the FIL blush!
It depends on how close you are to your MIL, but for me ... I'd say no! I don't want her all in my business and I certainly don't want to know what kind of coupons she's making for my FIL.
Eeew.
No I don't think it's weird.. if you get on well with your MIL then she confides in you. .. and just because she is older.. doesn't mean she and her husband have no more romance in the privacy of their bedroom.. It's not easy maybe for you to understand but there are a lot of older people who still get turned on by each other.. she is keeping her marriage alive.. maybe it's a good idea to discuss this with her.. because when you are married for 30 years it's a lot harder to keep a marriage going and of course it's less about sex then but it still plays a role.. a secondary role probably but she wants to be attractive for him and she makes those coupons for him.. that turns both of them on and it keeps their marriage from getting boring.. even if she is over 50 or over 60 she has a right to have a sex life.. it will not be as frequent and not as important as for you at your age.. but just to look attractive for him and wear lingerie for him which he likes to see on her.. is enough.. maybe they are more romantic than sexual and the kind of people who kiss and hold each other and not have sex...not a lot of times.. but that's cute.. I think she is doing something right in her marriage.. your MIL... and the fact that she tells you is .. she likes and trusts you.. she feels more like a much older sister toward you than a MIL.. I think that' s great.. My mom used to tell me things about her past and her sex life when she was younger.. and I believe it's a sign to see each other as equals.. she doens't look down on you.. see is fond of you and treats you more like a much younger female friend than like a Daughter-in-law.. be glad you have an open minded MIL who doesn't always snoop into your business and tells you what to do... she seems to be cool..
awkward
 Is he trying to cause trouble?
 Does anyone else see how stupid it is to take a chihuahua to the movie theater to see Beverly Hills Chihuahua?
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Would you shop for lingerie with your M.I.L?