I am 18 now, and have been asked out before, I tried to kiss the guy but ended up just being kissed on the cheek because I wasn't ready, even though I thought I was. I've never had a bf, and I am unhappy about it. I had a dream last night that I kissed someone it was such a great feeling. But it was only a dream I want to feel that in the real world. I don't understand why I have never had a bf, and why guys don't really ever talk to me. I am fun, and outgoing, but people don't realize that because I kind of come off as shy most of the time. I don't approach guys either and that could be the prob. But it could just be that I am ugly.
Do you think I am ugly? Be honest please.
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Sorry about another one of these "Am I ugly questions"? I am just wondering.
you look weird in that pic
not ugly....just a bit chubby. Nothing wrong with that. Star jones was chubby and shes famous
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You're NOT ugly at all :]
you're only problem is that you DON'T approach guys!
you totally should ! =]
uhhhh sorry to be honest i wouldnt want to kiss u at all cuz #1 im not attracted to that #2 people will laugh at me if i even kissed u THIS IS HONEST i dont want to lie and say ur hot lol just go to the gym and lose some weight then maybe u will find someone that likes u because thers love for everybody
First of all, you really need to relax about the whole dating and kissing thing. What will turn off most guys - regardless of age - is if you appear to be desperate or needy. It is one thing to be friendly, outgoing, and doing those things that you consider to be fun. There is nothing wrong with that. But, if you are constantly trying too hard to kiss a guy, push for a romantic relationship, etc., then you could be seen as desperate. This not only makes most guys back away, but it can also attract the WRONG guys - the ones that just want that "thang" - that you may not even want to date in the first place.
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8 posts - Last post: Dec 22, 2008With me, I always found it a tremendous struggle to get anywhere, and in some ways background wise I had similarities.
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Second, if you feel that you may not be attractive enough, then you need to consider what may be causing this and correct it. Personally, you may want to consider putting yourself into the hands of an excellent stylist that can find hairstyles that accentuate your face and eyes, as well as style your hair to go very nicely with your overall shape or appearance, naturally. Straight hair is nice, but maybe it is time to try something different that catches the attention of the kind of guys that you want? This is solely up to you. If you think that weight is the issue, then work on that. I see that you are walking 7 miles a day and eating less. This is a great start. You will see progress within a month, or less. But, keep going no matter what. Also, rather than eating less - if you are active [and walking 7 miles a day is very active] then try to reduce or eliminate unwanted sugars, sodas, greasy foods, etc. and intake more fruits and vegetables and fiber in your diet [salads are great for this!]. Eat less red meats or processed meats as that can be a problem. I've done this for more than a year, now, and lost over 30 pounds, and about 4" off my waist, and kept it off!! Most people think I am younger than I appear. I occasionally have the bouncers at the nightclubs carding me when I go. They don't believe my actual age when they see my license and I get a good laugh!
Third, take your own advice that you've told J.S. and banna milkshakez - BE YOURSELF, BE TALKATIVE. Trust me. In time, the real gentlemen will come around you. In the meantime, keep making friends and go have fun and just be you. Don't try to be someone you are not. Because, the real you will reveal itself to everyone. It isn't too late to change and break your shyness. I have to, everyday. I'm having more fun, now, than ever before.
maybe you don't have enough self confidence. it seems to be that guys love when you have confidence but not so much that your self centered. anyways you will get a boyfriend one day, don't worry!!
good luck.
I didn't get my first real kiss or real boyfriend til about 4 days before my high school graduation. And guess what. That was about two and a half years ago and we've been married for 6 months now! Just hang in there. It's worth it in the end. Think about it this way....The right guy hasn't found you yet. ;)
lol is this a real post?
No, you're not ugly at all. You're kinda heavy though and that may be making it a bit more difficult for you to attract guys than others. The best thing for you to do is to try to force yourself to be a bit more outgoing and make friends with guys. Hang out in big groups and see what develops. It's a bit less stressful that way, especially for someone who is a bit on the shy side. If you want to try to lose some weight, it will make getting a bf a little easier for you, but just remember that personality and chemistry are paramount.
I was wondering the same thing myself.
Only I'm 13 and a freshman but almost EVERYONE has already had a boyfriend and has kissed, and done all that and I have never been asked out or anything.
And my personality is like the same as yours. I'm super talkative once I get to know the person but if you don't know me, then you'd think I was quiet.
But no you're not ugly and even if you were(WHICH YOU'RE NOT) I don't think that would be a problem cuz i've seen rly ugly girls have boyfriends and stuff. so idk maybe theres something wrong with me
 Nobody understands...any help please?
 50 points for someone willing to do this!!!!!!!!!!?
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