my partner and i have been together for five years now(been with him since i was fifteen) as i was so young i foolishly made some mistakes a year r so ago i cheated on him... i just felt trapped so young and all my other friends were playin da field i felt left out.da ting is it was with a good mate of his...please dont judge. anyway he never got over it and has major trust issues since altough hipocriticaly he has cheated on me too...he checks my phone call history ,moans when i go out with friends (rare occasions)an forever bitches about my gay best mate.i do love him and i no he had a hard past but i feel i cant take these trust issues no more ...should i try an make a go of things after all it is five years???r am i too young for all this hassle??ANY ADVICE MUCH APPRICIATED!!! HowStuffWorks Videos "Worth Fighting For: Beluga Whales"::
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You are plainly unsure. So move on. 0ne day you will find someone whom you KNOW you want to be with.
if you don't get out now you will end up being controlled every move you make he will be there give him an ultimatum you either trust me and we start again with the relation ship from scratch or you don't trust me then i'm outta here for good i am young and got the rest of my life to get on with
you dont need all that, go be yourself you are in the same boat as wot i was and i have just walked away, after arguements, passing the blame about many of times, lets face it you have both cheated and and lied to each other so things will never be the same, you cant have a relationship with trust and insecurity issues, no way trust me!
go out and live your life, just be you and enjoy it work on a relationship thats worth it not one were ur clutching on to each other, but dont go looking for it enjoy yourself and youth for now n wen something good comes along, well start from scratch.... good luck x
I was in your partner's shoes at one time. He cheated on me.
If you are truly contrite and are truly loyal, then you need to let him look at your phones, chats, and other things until he is comfortable in your loyalty. It's not hassle, it is rebuilding and it can, at times, be a long road.
Only you can decide if this is just a relationship of comfort or if he is your true love.
Best of luck
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